. I always thought it should be called, I don't want to gain the whole world to lose my soul.Have a blessed weeked from Mom's Misc Adventures.
Friday, March 18, 2011
Music Video Fridays
It has been a while since I posted a music video, so I thought it was time for another one. Enjoy this music video by TobyMac. It is one of my favorites called, Lose My Soul. I always thought it should be called, I don't want to gain the whole world to lose my soul.
Have a blessed weeked from Mom's Misc Adventures.
. I always thought it should be called, I don't want to gain the whole world to lose my soul.Have a blessed weeked from Mom's Misc Adventures.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Link Your Giveaway Thursdays March 17-23
Do you have a giveaway going on? Link it here to my Linky, every Thursday.
All you have to do is type in the name of your site, the name of the item you are giving away and the date the giveaway ends. Then add the direct link to your giveaway.
My current giveaways:
Yogi Bear DVD Giveaway Ends 3/23
Bakery on Main Gift Set Giveaway Ends 3/21
I have a Giveaway Linky Directory, if you have a giveaway linky and you would like me to add you to my list please send me an e-mail. Be sure and check out my giveaway linky directory.
Monday, March 14, 2011
6 Ways to Fight Fair with Your Spouse
You can have a fair fight with your spouse by following these essential steps--acknowledge your negative emotions, allow each other to cool down and think of what to say, express your grievances constructively, take turns listening, allow the moment and issues to sink in, apologize and come up with a solution, and learn from the problem while leaving it in the past.
If you are going through a disagreement with your spouse, you don’t have to worry because you are not alone. Even the most compatible couples can find themselves in an argument with one another from time to time. Some disagreements may stem from small misunderstandings while others might be of more serious and complicated matters. Whatever the reasons there may be, the most essential relationship advice is to make sure that both parties involved deal with the problem fairly. Here are some steps you can follow so you can have a fair fight with your spouse:
Acknowledge your negative emotions
The first thing that both you and your spouse should do is acknowledge whatever negative emotions you are harboring against the other, but don’t say anything just yet. If you are angry at your spouse for something he or she has done, then be honest with yourself. Remember that it is alright to feel angry or hurt. Don’t pretend you are okay when you are not because this will only complicate things later on.
Allow each other to cool down and think of what to say
When both of you have acknowledged your anger and dissatisfaction, it is normal to feel the need to verbally vent out your frustration and start pointing out faults. However, always hold your tongue and make it a point to be tactful. But, this can be rather tricky, especially in such an emotional situation. If you find it difficult to express your thoughts constructively, then pause for a while and allow each other to cool down and think of what to say.
Express your grievances constructively
It is important that you are able to relay your thoughts and grievances. Be honest with your spouse and tell him or her what you really want to say, but in a tactful and constructive way. Expressing yourself constructively means avoiding hurting or sarcastic comments that will only aggravate the situation. Do not bring up past mistakes or issues that are not related to the current problem. Remember that the fight is meant to be a medium for you to resolve your problems and not a way to get even or hurt your spouse.
Take turns listening
Always keep in mind that fighting fairly means allowing each other equal opportunities to express yourselves. Before you speak, ask your spouse to listen first and argue his or her side later. Do the same when it is your spouse’s turn. Listen carefully to what he or she has to say and do not interrupt.
Allow the moment and issues to sink in
After you have explained your grievances, allow your spouse and yourself a moment of silence and let the issues sink in. This will allow both parties to focus on the problem at hand and, at the same time, regain control over emotions. This interval can last a few minutes or even hours, depending on how ready you are to move on to the next step.
Apologize and come up with a solution
It does not matter who started the fight, the important thing is that both of you acknowledge your mistakes and apologize sincerely to one another. Being apologetic will allow both of you to mutually solve the conflict.
Learn from the problem but leave it in the past
Reconciliation should end in an apology. Both you and your spouse should learn from what happened and make it a point to leave it in the past. Do not dig up the problem after it has been resolved.
Fighting is a healthy part of every relationship. It helps both parties improve the relationship and grow as individuals.
Remember that we are all different
and we react in different ways.
Most importantly, pray to God that he will help you with your relationship. Read your Bible and Pray everyday. The closer you get to God, the closer you and your spouse will grow together. All things are possible with God.
I recommend that every one read this book,
"The 5 Love Languages", The Secret to Love That Lasts.
By Gary Chapman
Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages, believes Dr. Gary Chapman. While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, he identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In a friendly, often humorous style, he unpacks each one. Some husbands or wives may crave focused attention; another needs regular praise. Gifts are highly important to one spouse, while another sees fixing a leaky faucet, ironing a shirt, or cooking a meal as filling their "love tank." Some partners might find physical touch makes them feel valued: holding hands, giving back rubs, and sexual contact. Chapman illustrates each love language with real-life examples from his counseling practice.
If you are going through a disagreement with your spouse, you don’t have to worry because you are not alone. Even the most compatible couples can find themselves in an argument with one another from time to time. Some disagreements may stem from small misunderstandings while others might be of more serious and complicated matters. Whatever the reasons there may be, the most essential relationship advice is to make sure that both parties involved deal with the problem fairly. Here are some steps you can follow so you can have a fair fight with your spouse:
Acknowledge your negative emotions
The first thing that both you and your spouse should do is acknowledge whatever negative emotions you are harboring against the other, but don’t say anything just yet. If you are angry at your spouse for something he or she has done, then be honest with yourself. Remember that it is alright to feel angry or hurt. Don’t pretend you are okay when you are not because this will only complicate things later on.
Allow each other to cool down and think of what to say
When both of you have acknowledged your anger and dissatisfaction, it is normal to feel the need to verbally vent out your frustration and start pointing out faults. However, always hold your tongue and make it a point to be tactful. But, this can be rather tricky, especially in such an emotional situation. If you find it difficult to express your thoughts constructively, then pause for a while and allow each other to cool down and think of what to say.
Express your grievances constructively
It is important that you are able to relay your thoughts and grievances. Be honest with your spouse and tell him or her what you really want to say, but in a tactful and constructive way. Expressing yourself constructively means avoiding hurting or sarcastic comments that will only aggravate the situation. Do not bring up past mistakes or issues that are not related to the current problem. Remember that the fight is meant to be a medium for you to resolve your problems and not a way to get even or hurt your spouse.
Take turns listening
Always keep in mind that fighting fairly means allowing each other equal opportunities to express yourselves. Before you speak, ask your spouse to listen first and argue his or her side later. Do the same when it is your spouse’s turn. Listen carefully to what he or she has to say and do not interrupt.
Allow the moment and issues to sink in
After you have explained your grievances, allow your spouse and yourself a moment of silence and let the issues sink in. This will allow both parties to focus on the problem at hand and, at the same time, regain control over emotions. This interval can last a few minutes or even hours, depending on how ready you are to move on to the next step.
Apologize and come up with a solution
It does not matter who started the fight, the important thing is that both of you acknowledge your mistakes and apologize sincerely to one another. Being apologetic will allow both of you to mutually solve the conflict.
Learn from the problem but leave it in the past
Reconciliation should end in an apology. Both you and your spouse should learn from what happened and make it a point to leave it in the past. Do not dig up the problem after it has been resolved.
Fighting is a healthy part of every relationship. It helps both parties improve the relationship and grow as individuals.
Remember that we are all different
and we react in different ways.Most importantly, pray to God that he will help you with your relationship. Read your Bible and Pray everyday. The closer you get to God, the closer you and your spouse will grow together. All things are possible with God.
I recommend that every one read this book,
"The 5 Love Languages
", The Secret to Love That Lasts.By Gary Chapman
Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages, believes Dr. Gary Chapman. While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, he identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In a friendly, often humorous style, he unpacks each one. Some husbands or wives may crave focused attention; another needs regular praise. Gifts are highly important to one spouse, while another sees fixing a leaky faucet, ironing a shirt, or cooking a meal as filling their "love tank." Some partners might find physical touch makes them feel valued: holding hands, giving back rubs, and sexual contact. Chapman illustrates each love language with real-life examples from his counseling practice.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Free Redbox Movies
Follow these steps to score free redbox movies from now until Thursday, March 17.
■Sign-up for a redbox online account at www.redbox.com/luckymoms
Why? By signing up for an online account, you can see what movies are currently in redbox kiosks near you and reserve your picks to guarantee they’ll still be waiting for you when you get there (until 9 p.m. the next day).
■Redbox will email you a personal web address link
■Share the link with your friends
■Every time someone reserves a movie online through your personal web address, you’ll receive a credit in your online account for a free one-night DVD rental
■If it is your friend’s first time reserving online, they’ll also receive a credit for a free one night rental
■Spread the luck! Email it, post it to Facebook, Tweet about it.
I am entering a giveaway for free redbox movies and movie snack packs as a member of the Mom Bloggers Club.
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